Friday, March 23, 2012

Turkish Twist

ISTANBUL, TURKEY
Istanbul by night
             I was fortunate enough to sit next to a recent UVM grad on my flight from Greece to Turkey.  He was backpacking around Europe as well so we had plenty to talk about at the dismay of our surrounding passengers.  Although we had casually exchanged info as we went our separate ways at baggage claim, I had more than a feeling that I would be seeing him again. 

My first Mosque
               As I made my way down to the pristine subway station, I officially felt like I was in a foreign country.  And that may seem strange to some of you since I have been in foreign countries all along but, unfortunately, a lot of Europe looks like America when you first step off the plane, train or bus.  Apparently Americans aren’t the only ones getting fat- McDonalds, Subway, Burger King and KFC were always the first thing welcoming me to a new city.  Not exactly what I was expecting!  But here in Turkey, I definitely sensed the gateway between east and west.  There weren’t too many women to be seen and, the few that were on the subway, covered their heads and/or faces with a burqa.  I didn’t actually see any face veils, which I later discovered were outlawed in Turkey!  Turkish law prohibits religious dress in public places so most Muslim women comply by wearing what is called a Tesettur, which is more of a head scarf over a light cover-all top coat.
Amazing Suleymaniye Mosque!  I loved the patterns.

               I got a terrible headache as I made the long train ride to the Bada Bing hostel on the Western side of Istanbul.  Apparently Americans weren’t the only ones watching the Sopranos either.  I was really impressed to find the owner of the Bada Bing extremely generous.  He was so helpful with my backpack and he insisted on bringing me tea for my headache.  I didn’t feel like going out that night but my two roommates from Georgia (the American state, not the sovereign state in Eurasia) had invited me to dinner.  We made the steep walk up to the busy shopping street of Istiklal Caddesi and enjoyed a quick donner kebab dinner.  Good but not as good as the donners I discovered in Berlin.  Wasn’t this supposed to be the capital of donner kebabs??
I'm just mad about Saffron.  Saffron's mad about me.

               The next morning, I climbed the steep streets yet again to meet up with the kid/guy from the plane, Will.  We began at the famous Galata Tower and headed across the Galata Bridge where many Turkish men were fishing the Bosphorus River for the catch of the day.  Just moments after pulling the fish out of water, they were sold right there on the street to locals passing by.  Will and I veered off the main street to explore the famous spice market.  Now, as most of you know, I’m not much of a cook.  Salt is really the only spice necessary in my kitchen.  So as much as I could marvel at the different colors, smells and tastes of the Istanbul Spice Market, I really couldn’t appreciate it the way Will could.  He was 22 going on 52 and I loved him for it.  He was well-read.  For sake of a cheap joke, he was Will-read!  Not only was he a wealth of information, he was generous enough to pass on that wisdom to me.    
Spice Market
Turkish Delight!
Feel that plush carpet between your toes
                We walked a mindless zip-zag pattern around the Spice Market until we came out near a large mosque.  I don’t recall its official name but I will always remember it as ‘my first mosque’.  I don’t really know what I was expecting but this certainly exceeded it.  The incredibly high ceiling was supported by beautifully patterned walls.  The plush carpet under my feet was so soothing.  Now this was the way to pray!  Why do Catholics insist on praying with their shoes on?  Why so formal?  It’s much more comfortable in your socks. 


Removing shoes at my first Mosque
Mosque

                We returned back to the hustle, bustle, and lack of muscle amongst Instanbulians (not an actual word) and headed for the Grand Bizaare!  Amongst the 31 covered streets and over 3000 shops, I can say that Wikipedia’s estimation of 250,000 to 400,000 visitors per day sounds about accurate.  It’s one of the oldest and most famous marketplaces and I felt like I was back on the floor of the New York Stock Exchange.  I loved the bartering!  Exchanging bids and offers on even the smallest of Turkish merchandise was a lot more fun than paying sticker price at the Gap back home!  Besides the rush of making a deal, the bartering system also left one open to fraternizing with the locals.  Some were more versed in English than others but all seemed to love Americans.  I was subject to some very flattering pick-up lines, which I am happy to share with you:

Ahh, Lady, over here.  You are so beautiful.  What you want, Lady?
You are lovely.  Have you come here for me?
You want to marry?

Is it me that you are looking for?

Where are you from?  Boston?  I love Celtics….and you.  Can I move with you?

I….am….divorced.  Hello.

               Somehow I managed to resist their charm.

Grand Bazaar
Suffice it to say that no Turkish man took my hand in marriage.  I survived their pick-up lines, ignored the Chinese knock-off Louis Vuitton bags and Dolce and Gabana sunglasses, and finally found what I was really looking for in the Grand Bazaar- authentic Turkish craftsmanship.  There were so many beautiful colors and designs that cannot be found in a Pottery Barn catalogue at home.  If only I could bring some back home with me without breaking it in my bag. Oh wait-if only I knew where my next home would be.  Crap, looks like bad timing on Istanbul household items.  I would look, admire, shop around, and possibly come back another day.
Will and I spent the evening at the Aya Sofia where I had my socks knocked off!   From its date of dedication in 360 until 1453, it served as the Greek Patriarchal cathedral of Constantinople except during the 13th century when it had a 50+ year run with the Roman Catholics.  It later served as a mosque from 1453 to 1931.  Now it’s a remarkable museum!  Usually when a country is conquered, the old is replaced with new.  However, in the case of Aya Sofia, some of the oldest and most precious Christian mosaics were preserved under the new Islamic tributes.  The entire structure was just so massive.  My friend, Sri, had told me that it was her favorite sight in Istanbul so I took some extra time to absorb it all.  I had a feeling Aya Sofia would hold a special place in my heart as well…and I was right.
Aya Sofia

Aya Sofia

Aya Sofia

              The next day, Will and I decided to team up again to see the Topkapi Palace, which was the center of the Ottoman Empire for nearly four centuries.  No big deal, right?  It was very impressive but, for whatever reason, I didn’t connect to the Palace like I had with other impressive sights I saw on my trip.  Maybe it was the surprisingly cold, damp weather.  Maybe it was the especially long queues to view the artifacts in each building/room.  Maybe it was the headache that seemed to be lingering over the past few days.  Maybe it was the annoying and disrespectful herds of Asian tourists that cut the lines and elbowed their way through crowds.   I WILL say that I really enjoyed the building full of colorful, patterned tile.  Turks are so tasteful with their tile!  I also got to see the sword that David used when fighting Goliath.  Yeah, I didn’t really think that story happened either but they had a sword and plaque and everything.  Hmmph.

Tiles at Topkapi Palace

               

Topkapi Palace



The next few days, Will and I continued to conquer all the top spots in Istanbul:
The Blue Mosque where I tried to take a peaceful nap on the carpet like my friend, Sander, advised.  I was scolded by Will and others.  With 6 minarets and 20000 blue tiles, it was as awesome as expected.
In the Blue Mosque

Turkish Hamam- Nothing like a day at the Turkish spa!  Picture a warm, hexagonal room where you douse yourself with water and lay on heated tiles looking up at small star-shaped openings in the ceilings that let in natural sunlight.  You see it?  Now picture your calming experience coming to an yend when a large, unattractive Turkish woman grunts to express his readiness to bathe you.  She throws a couple buckets of water over you and then adds lots of suds.  She scrubs and scrubs until you’re clean of the idea of ever coming to another Turkish spa. I actually enjoyed the Haru but most female tourists looked pretty scared.  When I reconvened with Will later in the lobby, it sounded like he may have been one of those tourists in the male steam room.
Typical Turkish Hamam
 A boat ride on the Bosphorus en route to Asia-  Not only is Turkey located within two continents but Istanbul is too!  I took a ride up the mighty Bosphorus River in order to climb a hill in Karakoy.  It was a short, steep hill with lots of stray dogs.  We looked out over the Dead Sea and Will was giddy with fun facts about different battleships.  Oh and did I mention it was my 28th birthday??  Yeah, I got to visit two continents on my big day!  Knowing my love (and growing addiction) for Coca-Cola, Will taped a couple candles to a can of Coke and sang for me.  Very sweet.  Definitely my most unique birthday yet!
Check out that Dead Sea

So long Europe! We're in Asia today!

Swinging in Asia!
               About five days later, Will had to move on to Ireland.  I had met lots of people on my journeys so I was used to relishing the good times and not dramatizing my goodbyes.  I knew Will and I would stay in touch since he was a Maine-iac back home.   I was flattered to find out that I was really the only person that Will had teamed up with on his trip!  He tore through sights like he tore through books so he was completely self-sufficient.  I must have held him back from seeing/doing everything he was capable of in Istanbul but I’m glad that I could contribute to his experience in some unknown way.  Or maybe he was just too nice to say, ‘Go away!’  J 
Will's consequences of overdosing on Sudafed

               I didn’t have time to wallow because my awesome brother-in-law Brian connected me with some amazing locals!   After recently attending his class reunion in Victor, NY, Brian reconnected with the Turkish foreign exchange student, Bora, who also attended.  I’m sure the Victor High School Class of 1990 something NEVER thought they would see the Turkish exchange student again!  Well Bora and his wife, Denis, had proved them wrong by making the trip to the USA!  They returned to Istanbul just in time to meet up with me for my last few days.  We shared a nice brunch overlooking the entire city and they invited me back to their apartment that was conveniently located in the heart of shopping strip of Istiklal Caddesi. 

               It was just my luck that their personal masseuse was paying a visit to their home to help them relax from the long airplane ride from the United States.  The man was so pleased to meet an American that he insisted on giving me a free massage.  It was the most amazing 45 minutes of my life.  I really felt like the luckiest girl in the world.  People love to wallow when they’re on the bad side of luck.  I am going to gloat on being on the good side of this one.  Massage aside, I had the pleasure of sharing the evening (and some pizza and wine) with these Bora and Denis who were such WONDERFUL people!  Each of them had so much going for them.  And, together, they were even better.  Somehow they had struck a balance with life and each other.  There was a mutual respect and admiration amongst the two of them that you don’t see enough in real life.  They were clearly in love, which was really cool to be around. 
Returning the favor to the best massuese in Turkey
Denis and Bora!

               The next day I hit the grand bazaar with a fire in my eye.  I was ready to bargain/barter/hustle/buy stuff!  I bought many small ceramic items but my most cherished one came in leather.  I had staked out a jacket and I was ready to commit.  I thought that I had finally reached an age where I should be responsible enough for such an expensive item.  J  I let the salesmen schmooze me with delicious apple tea.  I let them pour water over the leather to revel in its quality.  I even let them take a lighter to the leather sleeve to wow me!  Meanwhile I honed in on my price and wasn’t going to budge.  Bora and Denis were really impressed with my negotiating skills and were surprised at the great deal I had struck! 


A Grand Bazaar entrance


Man who sold me my snazzy leather jacket
"I will need Apple Tea to help me decide."

              That evening, Bora and Denis invited me back again.  Bora gave me a tour of the surrounding neighborhood where we sampled mussels with lemon….straight from the barrel.  Remember when I only ate peanut butter and fluff sandwiches??  Ain’t no stoppin’ me noooow!  Denis made a delicious home-cooked meal but it must have had some tryptophan because I conked right out once we started watching ‘Snatch’.  Bora took me home in a cab again and walked me right to the door of the Bada Bing.  He was definitely a gentleman but he was also rightfully concerned for my safety since he made me aware that my hostel was located right next to a legalized brothel!  The whole Bada-Bing-thing was now making sense! 


A girl who has been shopping!

               I was finally guilty about all the food I had been eating over my few months in Europe so I decided to go for a run on my last day.  I knew that it wasn’t a great idea since 80% of the people on the streets of Istanbul were menl.  And 100% of those men were accustomed to seeing women in only burqas.  But I really needed to work out!  I’m glad I did it but It was pretty uncomfortable.  Cabs were slowly creeping along behind me and men were not afraid to just stop and stare.  I flipped off a couple of men and had staring contests with others but it was no use.  They didn’t understand who I was or what I was doing and I didn’t understand how they could ever make a woman feel so degraded.  It was an experience nonetheless. 

In fact, it really summed up the incredibly interesting city that Istanbul was.  It served as the gateway between the East and West- a Muslim democracy.  It was truly unlike any other city I had visited and it was a real shame that I didn’t feel safe enough to visit the rest of Turkey.  I had heard such wonderful things from other travelers but didn’t want to send my parents into cardiac arrest.  With just a couple hours until my flight to London, I returned to the spice market for some Christmas shopping- Turkish Apple Tea for everyone!! 
Umm...why the quotes??  "hope to see you again soon too, Istanbul"???

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FOODS I TRIED: apple tea, baklava, donner, borek, Turkish delight, hummus, beer, olives, assorted cheese